In case you are looking for something to do in the Baltimore/DC type area in the next few weeks, here is what _I_ am doing...

Tonight
First I have a photo shoot at BIG HUGE GAMES, for MICA. Maybe I will meet Brian Reynolds!!!! Then I will be going to Sonar to photograph DROP THE LIME, BLAQSTARR, DAVE NADA, TROUBLE N BASS.

Sat. 10th
Scottie B. and Blaqstarr are playing (Blaqstarr is just hosting) at the Rock N Roll Hotel in DC, with Gavin Holland. I am unsure if I am going to this.

Sun 11th
I'm taking photos at my studio, let me know if you want to be in PICTURES.

Mon 12th
I am photographing BONDE DO ROLE, THEDEATHSET, DJ SEGA, OLD HAUNTS, FUTURE ISLANDS at Sonar... don't miss this show!!!!!!!!

Thurs 15th
i am shooting the MICA ArtWalk

Fri 16th
i am going to Artomatic and seeing Pygmylush and Turboslut play.

Sat the 17th
Going to a minor league baseball game in Bowie! Kara, Ben you wanna go? Then I am photographing Black Kids/Cut Copy @ Sonar

Sun the 18th
is the crawfish boil! y'all better pay up.

Mon 19th
i am shooting Triac @ Sonar

Tues the 20th til the 25th
i will be in New Orleans. hit me up!!!

And this can apply to either gender, but I'll use this gender.

Is it old, advanced age that makes intolerable bitches out of women

or is it just that bitches are the only ones that survive to advanced old age?

In any case. Old people need to hurry the fuck up and die already. Nobody cares, and they usually smell like urine, fear, and Republicanism.

My girlfriend pointed out that we don't have pet names for each other. Now, we've only been dating for 3 months, and we've only been "official and monogamous" (her housemate's words) for 2 months, and she's still getting used to the "boyfriend/girlfriend" nomenclature, after being a very independent operator for years.

"Ham slice" is probably a non starter.

I doubt that "Oyster plate" would have legs, either.



What's your time line for pet names? BF/GF? Monogamy?
Are the time lines linked or independent?

As a rule, I don't use pet names. I have a couple of diminutives I use to show affection to people I'm close to-- Sweet Child and Kiddo, and occasionally Kid or Sweetheart. I use these with her, and with my best friends (male and female), and with my younger brother, and sometimes my pre-teen and teenage cousins.

Do you have favorite pet names? Are they unique, or do you re-use them with new lovers/partners/fuckbuds?

And do you have any suggestions?

Maybe Tulip? And Dumpling?

On Wednesday night, we brainstormed a few dozen on beer coasters, with a little bit of help from Courtney, who knows people in real life that I know in real life, which was so weirdly... real...